Where should I move to?

I'm working on a plan B if my marriage doesn't work. I've lived near Port Townsend, WA for years. My parents and sister are here. My daughter's dad is here. Its really hard to find a place as I'm unemployed. I've been to three shelters now. Always wound up back home. I'm determined to keep looking. So, there's Olympia/Lacey, Oak Harbor, Seattle and Tacoma. My daughter and I have extended family in Tacoma, Federal Way, Bonney Lake and Auburn,WA. I'm just afraid to travel too far from my kid's dads.